In the same city,I was enrolled in the University. while he was trained to be a seaman. I thought I planed to it . But I still couldn't accept it when the day came that he set out for his first sailing .The days after came my role as a girl friend and later wife to a sailor ,nearly 10 years past up to now .Among g these years I always waiting, waiting my man comes back from the sea ,waiting for his letters and telephones .

While in the University ,we were arranged to pay a visit to a ve vessel ,although my boyfriend didn't serve on it ,but it belonged to COSCO,It meant everyhing to me .

During our visiting ,I saw a girl ,about 7-8 years old ,lovely an and pretty, playing there by herself.No sooner did I go up to talk to her than one man came out from the Second Office, surely was her father ,took her away .Handsome Dad
and pretty daughter made a deep impression in my mind .I imagined maybe one day we would have a lovely girl .He may take
her to his vessel, will the scene be the same now .

We do have a daughter ,who strongly resembles him ,lovely and
pretty .But my words are too limit to describe what kind of vesseel her works on. Someday she will know .

Every time he came back from the sea ,thinner than than the day
he went to the sea .my heart was aching .One sentence echoer ,"He's too thin'.
Even it's not my fault ,I continue to blame myself .I should not let my lover so thin,I'll make him gain as more weigh as I can by all meas .I can;t change the living condition on the vessel, but I can do my best at home .

As a sailor;s wife ,you also can enjoy many happy things .You can feel his deep soul love every minutes .You are the first and only person he;d like to call once the vessel gets to one s-aeaport .Once I get news from him ,the first thing I will do is
to track out his postition in the World Map.It becomes a routine for me .I can even rouhgly
reckon the approximate date their vessel will arrive the next por-t .

May all sailor;s families lead a happy life .